Welcome back to “Finding the Guardian of Your Soul®,” the podcast where we dive deep into the intricacies of relationships. In today’s episode, titled “Lost in Translation: How Men and Women Hear Dating Terms Differently,” your host Lisa Shield takes a closer look at the misunderstandings that can arise when it comes to communication in relationships.

We’ll start by exploring the request for space that men often make and how women may misinterpret it as a sign of trouble. Lisa shares insights on why men sometimes need time alone and how it doesn’t necessarily mean they are pulling away from the relationship. On the other hand, we’ll uncover why women often use phrases like “we need to talk” and how it can be misinterpreted by men, leading to feelings of anxiety and avoidance.

Lisa also shares a heartwarming story about a client who is navigating the complexities of taking the next step in their relationship. The couple is in love and serious, but there is confusion about what it means to live together. We’ll explore how both men and women have different expectations and concerns when it comes to moving in together and making a commitment.

Throughout the episode, Lisa offers practical advice on how to bridge the gap in understanding between men and women. She emphasizes the importance of open communication, active listening, and asking specific questions to clarify expectations and intentions. We’ll also delve into the concept of taking things slow and how it can mean different things to different people.

So, grab your headphones and get ready for an enlightening conversation on the nuances of communication in relationships. Stay tuned for “Lost in Translation: How Men and Women Hear Dating Terms Differently,” right here on “Finding the Guardian of Your Soul®.”

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What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

– Communication differences surrounding certain phrases, such as “I need time alone” and “we need to talk”

– Clarifying the meaning of commitment with each partner

– Asking specific questions to understand expectations and intentions

– Regular communication and clarification to avoid misunderstandings

– Importance of discussing expectations and desires for building a deeper connection

– Addressing potential issues and clarifying intentions early on

– Recognizing signs of a potential mismatch in commitment levels

– Importance of addressing concerns and desires to avoid future hurt and disappointment

– Men also need space for personal growth and processing, similar to women

– Seriousness for men may involve consistency and integrating each other into daily routines, not necessarily long-term plans

– Differences in views on moving in together

– Importance of open communication and taking time to be sure before making such big decisions

– Highlighting the need for communication and understanding differing perspectives in a relationship

Key quotes:

• “When most women tell a man they want to ‘take it slowly,’ they are saying they want to build a strong emotional foundation before having sex. They want deep meaningful conversations and to build the emotional intimacy first. For men, taking it slowly often means NOT having intimate talks that go too deep.” – Lisa Shield
• “When a woman hears the phrase ‘I need some space,’ it can trigger catastrophic thinking and tap into her insecurities, causing her to question the stability of the relationship. On the other hand, for some men, being in a serious relationship may simply mean integrating each other into their daily routines and getting to know each other better, without necessarily signaling long-term plans or commitments.” — Lisa Shield
• “It is good to have a conversation to clarify what you mean by certain phrases. You can say, ‘Hey, ________, I know that we said we’re in a committed relationship, and I also know that being in a committed relationship, that word can have different meanings for different people. I would love to hear what it means for you.’” — Lisa Shield

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Lisa Shield | YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call With Lisa

Email the podcast at: podcast@lisashield.com